Wednesday, February 21, 2007
"we associate certain people with certain topics," so says my wise friend.
funny how we got talking about work and then it went off tangent and we began talking about stuff we always talk about when we do catch up. i know specifically what my wise friend means every time, even if its a very general questions like "how're u?" or "so how are things?" and it's funny really. coz it kinda shows how easily conditioned or categorized we are as people. so when i mused how we inevitably get to certain topics, my wise friend concluded the above.
and when i stopped briefly to think about it, i realized that like with big ngoh and the brother, fishing's our lingo; with lily, it's our no.1 choice; with my girls, yup, there def are things we def get onto every time; with the chi girls, it's about who's up to what so that even if ur meeting just 1 member of chi, u find out about the other 6 and their other (ex/present/almost) half; with lav, it used to be about pilot and so on....so we all have code words or pet topics, or whatever it is u wanna call it, that we naturally go on. and this takes place if u meet up for 1/2 a min or 1/2 an hr or 1/2 a day. haha it's not some great new realization or anything..just that it struck me how quickly we associate people with things or topics or events. haha wonder what my wise friend and i will talk about when there's no more drama in our life. hahaha oh how dreadful if such a day comes! how's that for drama? haha
